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How Pornography Affects your brain and body | Tahira Rubab

According to the data released by Google, Pakistan tops the list of most porn-searching countries. One of the major problems is that many people have become addicted to watching porn which has a deep impact not only on the body but also the mind. In this post i will discuss the affect of pornography on your brain and body and how to overcome the habit of pornography. How Pornography become Addiction  To start, let’s just state plainly that sexual activity produces large amounts of dopamine. Our bodies are simply wired that way. Sex, masturbation and viewing pornography will ALL cause our brains to produce dopamine, and ultimately crave more of it. We can become addicted to pornography for precisely that reason. Regular use of pornography will eventually lead to a craving for the dopamine that comes from using it. The real issue with pornography and dopamine is that pornography is so accessible thanks to the internet.  Pornography and Coolidge Effect  Porography leads to sexual violenace and adultry and distrub the sexual relationship with your spouse. To understand this we must consider the Coolidge Effect, which states that over time, sexual desire will decrease with a single mate and increase with a new one.  According to this theory, sexual desire increases from a “newness” factor. Now, bring pornography into the equation. We have an affinity to want “new” things because they produce more dopamine–more excitement–and with pornography the options for new people is endless. In doing that, we train our bodies to become dependent upon finding a new, exciting “mate” that will meet or exceed our current expectation in order to have the dopamine released. It is no longer enough to simply have sex or be committed to a single woman when pornography is viewed in excess. It creates a relationship where the only thing arousing is novelty. This can then create an issue when an individual attempts to stop watching porn. Porn withdrawal is a real issue and can cause major fluctuations in one’s behavior. Pornography and Erectile dysfunction ( Effect of Body) This is why many pornography addicts experience porn-induced erectile dysfunction and why many men desire to have more sex but are not aroused by their spouse. They have trained their body to be more aroused by an image than a person because the “novelty” image will lead to an increased dopamine response compared to the alternative. Pornography literally changes our brain to desire more pornography, just like drinking soda will make you want more soda, or that having candy will make you want more candy. Our brains become “wired” to have pornography and to seek it out. How to get rid of the habit of Pornography  In conclusion, knowing that your impulse to view pornography has a strong tie to the way your brain is wired will help with the recovery process. Quitting pornography isn’t just about abstaining from it, but is about rewiring your brain to stop craving those dopamine hits. To get there we need to view our recovery like a health challenge. Simply eating a healthy diet for six weeks doesn’t make you healthy just like abstaining from pornography for six weeks doesn’t make you recovered. Rebooting your brain will take time and dedication to restore your life to a state where pornography isn’t a part of it anymore. A good first step is stopping the habit, but fixing the issue will take time. If you are addicted to pornography and faceing chanlleneg to overcome on this habit. Don’t feel shy. Call +923111714470, or visit www.tahirarubabhafeez.com to chat online for support 24/7. Always remember you are not alone! Watch this video to know more tips.  About the Author  Ms Tahira Rubab is an internationally authorized and certified Clinical psychologist. she is known as Clinical psychologist, sex therapist, motivational speaker, capacity building Trainer, and tv analyst.Feel free to contact and book appointment 03114482787

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10 Tips to Improve Your Mental Health Right Now|Tahira Rubab

Are you feeling stressed, depressed, Anxious or flooded with thoughts, and don’t know what to do ?That’s an everyday struggle with most of the people on this planet. Struggling with mental health can have such a huge impact on your daily life. It makes it really hard to achieve the goals of your life as you’re hit by doubts about your own desires and targets. In this blog I will share 10 tips with you that you can implement instantly and improve your mental health: 1. Write Down Everything You Think Is Going Wrong Take a pen and paper and do a “brain dump” of your feelings. Write down all of the things that are overwhelming, troubling, or stressing you out. Keep writing until you can’t think of anything more to write. The act of physically writing down your thoughts does several things: It helps you prioritize your concerns, worries and fears. Therefore, your brain gets a message that actually some things need not to worry about. You no longer have to panic about these things. . It relieves your mind of the burden of these thoughts because now you can see through things more clearly. 2. Go Outside It’s also scientifically proven that Fresh air or being outdoors can significantly change and improve your mood. Finding somewhere green to go, or on a hike, or just taking a short walk on your lunch break at work are a few simple ways to boost up your mood. 3. Declutter Your Environment Whether it’s your desk at work, the car you’re driving, or your bedroom decluttering your environment is a good place to start. Studies have also shown that clutter raises your stress levels and makes you feel depressed and unhappy. In my experience I never realized how litter is affecting me until I cleaned up the area around me. After clearing unnecessary stuff I always feel much better when I have more space around me.. 4. Stay Away From Negative Media If you’re feeling anxious or depressed don’t watch or read things that make it worse. I love watching and reading psychological thrillers, but I also know they’re very heavy and take a toll on my peace and mental comfort. Even though they’re entertaining, I try to avoid them especially when I’m already fearful or sad because they add fuel to my gloominess and make it harder to get out of a bad spot. Hence, stay away from super sad or potentially upsetting movies, tv, books, or music. Take a break from social media (unless you’re using it to look up for positive quotes). Don’t turn on the news. You can catch up on things tomorrow. Relax! 5. Spend Time With a Pet or Child Thinking too much about the past or being anxious about the future is also what makes your mental health suffer to a very large extent. See an example of animals and kids, they are always living in the present moment, how happy and carefree they are, of course they worry less. Be more like a child. Spending time with your pet and kids makes you feel bright, isn’t it? 6. Call a Family Member or Friend It’s really easy to isolate yourself when you’re struggling with your mental health. Try to reach out to a close friend or family member at such a time. Even if you don’t talk about what you’re going through, social interaction is helpful when you’re feeling downhearted. 7. Practice Gratitude Saying thanks to someone, helping someone, expressing gratitude for nature or more positive things around you are just some simple ways that will make you feel happy. It’s harder to maintain a negative mental state when you’re sharing and feeling positive emotions. Instead you build strong relationships and improve your mental health. 8. Stay Away From Alcohol, Caffeine or Other Mood-Altering Substances A healthy sleep comes to your mind when you talk about alcohol and caffeine and their effects on mental health. That in itself is a long topic to cover. Alcohol is known to increase your stress and stress is known to increase the risk of alcohol. Better not go near alcohol during the times of depression. Having a cup or two of coffee in the morning or afternoon is normal but over-caffeinating is likely to make things worse. If you’re anxious, caffeine (a stimulant) will ramp up your anxiety tenfold. While substance use may provide a temporary escape, you will feel significantly worse mentally coming down from the high (figurative or literal). 9. Take Care of Your Appearance When you’re in a bad mental state, often the first thing to go out the window is hygiene. If you haven’t yet, brush your teeth, take a shower, and brush your hair, go for it now! Taking it a step further, do something that makes you feel good about your appearance. It could be doing your hair, getting a new haircut, changing hair color /or makeup, or putting on a nice outfit. Even though your outward appearance isn’t the most important thing about you, cleaning up and dressing up will give you more confidence and help you feel better on the inside. 10. Engage in a Comforting Hobby People who participate in some kind activities/hobbies are likely to suffer less from low moods, stress, or stagnation. Many people engage themselves in physical exercise, athletics, creative endeavors like painting, or academic hobbies etc. These activities are not only amusing but also good for your physical and mental health. You are more likely to stay away from meaningless thoughts and feelings. Anything that makes you feel more relaxed and comfortable without any harmful or negative side effects. If you’re in a really dark place or things feel like they’re getting out of control, call +923111714470, or visit www.tahirarubabhafeez.com to chat online for support 24/7. Always remember you are not alone!   Watch this video to know more tips. [embedyt] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yzEuHmHBqEM[/embedyt] About the Author Ms Tahira Rubab is an internationally authorized and

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